To be selfish is like being a black hole in space - all things go inwards, there is no caring for others. It does not matter what comes or goes, all is about you. They take and never give of themselves. They consider others who do give as stupid or being a fool. They will laugh and snigger behind good peoples backs. These people do not think of sharing and are greedy.
We are here on this plane to create. We can only create when we have conquered all of our negative ways, including selfishness. Acceptance, kindness and compassion requires sharing and giving just as the earth and universe give us life. We must do as they do, ‘as above so below.’ Learn to let go of the self.
This is the disempowerment of selfishness and greed